The Identity That Built Your Success Might Be Limiting Your Life - ep. 224

What if the version of you that built your success is the same version limiting your expansion?

In this episode, I explore the hidden cost of performance-based identity, and why strategy isn’t the real issue for most high-achieving women

We get into:

• How conditioning shapes the way you lead, love, and receive
• The difference between mind fear, emotional fear, and identity fear
• Why the fear you think you have is rarely the real one
• How performance-based safety blocks intimacy, overflow, and ease
• The subtle ways you may be turning growth into another form of proving

This isn’t about optimizing your funnel or refining your messaging.

It’s about who you had to become in order to succeed, and whether she’s the woman who can hold the life you say you want next.

If you’ve ever felt successful but still slightly tense… capable but not settled… expanding but not spacious — this episode is for you.

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